9. Dance with me…. Resilience

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COREOLLI Core Resilience Cover   

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Dance with me LL resilience bl 3 

 

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HA!…
Just as I was finishing up this post…..and about to push the “publish” button…..
Posting these “resilience” ideas…
with the intention of helping myself learn to become more resilient!!!
And….to share these ideas in case they might be useful for others….

BUT!!!
…..5 minutes ago………..sudden!!!………torrential rains!!!…..
…….continuing still!!!……
…..and HUGE winds!!!……
I don’t think I’ve ever seen it rain that hard!!
And….the wind!!!…wow!!!!…huge!!!!

And then…. oh wow!!!!….
the overflow from outside was flooding (!!!) under our  laundry room door…!!!!

Peter and me….grabbing a little broom and a  huge broom!!!….
sweeping…shoving…pushing….the puddling water out from that room!!!!
!!!!!…..soaking up water with towels…..!!!!!

Peter….dragging sandbags to place outside….outside that laundry room door!
….!!!to block more water from coming in!!!….

Peter…outside on a tall ladder….clearing a hugely overflowing (!!!) roof gutter!

WOW!…
……..what….REALLY……bizarre!!!!…timing!!!………
…..!!!Wow!!!….

???…. this must be the “serendipity” …????
?????…..in Al Siebert’s Resilience ideas way down below…..?????
and a few more qualities of …. “highly resilient people” ….
… “adapt quickly!” …
… “expect things to work out well!” ….
… “be proactive!” …
… “take care of yourself!” …. 
… “learn from experience!” …

uh oh…lights are flickering…better post this quick!!!
………wow……..
……ohhhhhhhhhh my goodness!……
……..here we go……..
…..learning about…..
…….practicing……
…………….resilience!!!……………

How amazing!!!!!

Resilience!

 

OLLI Mayo Resilience list just titles 1000 

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OLLI Mayo Resilience check 10 2 font 1000

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OLLI Mayo Resilience list explan

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~OLLI mayo res checks

 

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Mayo daily chart resilience qualities~

res check photo 2

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Resilience Siebert list qualiti

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Resilience Siebert page 1

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Resilience Siebert page 2

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Resilience Siebert page 3

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Ideas from Al Siebert PhD,  The Resiliency Advantage

Resilience qualities

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Ideas from Al Siebert PhD,  The Resiliency Advantage

Siebert resilience 5 levels and

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Ideas from Al Siebert PhD,  The Resiliency Advantage~

Siebert Resiliency points boxes 22

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~dance page 24 Resilience Siebert blue

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Resilience bookmarks just RESIE bb

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!!!!…..Resilience…..!!!!
Link to youtube of song:  “Dance with me……”


“Wake up!”  and  “Dance with me!”
“Resilience!”


“Don’t you dare look back!…Keep your eyes on me!”


Below….my “message”  from  “myself”…..to myself….


“Wake up!”  and  “Dance with me…..”
“Resilience!”

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Dance with me Lady Liberty wake up and dance with me

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dance with me Resilience mayo 4

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Dance with me LL resilience bl 3

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 A few additional pages…. I’m actually fascinated and intrigued by these ideas!!!… impressed by the potential usefulness and helpfulness of the ideas…Wow!….

And so…now for me to remember to practice using them…And hence…all of these pages to help support myself in that happening…..

adding a bit of “playfulness,” too!

Mao steps LL large

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Mayo resilience steps grid empty to fill in

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Mayo resilience steps fill in sections~

Mayo daily chart resilience qualities

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Mayo steps check boxes 2 on page~

playful!

Mayo resilience star checks 2 on pagemore…playful!

Mayo list LL stars too

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Encouraging “resilience” …. through “Seeding” the Clouds


“Seeding the Clouds” through using wisdom perspectives: 
a list of posts about understanding and using more insightful “Wisdom Teachings Perspectives” when trying to come to terms with challenging circumstances (all created during Fall 2015 and Winter 2016 )

this and this of course turbulence always moving

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Encouraging “resilience”
through nurturing and developing a variety of positive qualities

Links to lists of Pocket Perspectives posts specifically about:

“Persistence” : Link to posts encouraging developing  persistence

“Courage”   Posts relating to Courage

“Encouragement”  Posts relating to Encouragement

“Comfort”   Posts encouraging  “Comforting oneself or others”

Being careful about our “Hypothetical Thinking”  Posts relating to being careful about “hypothetical thinking”

“Strength”   Posts relating to encouraging a sense of “strength”

“Compassion”  Links to posts encouraging  nurturing compassion for ourselves and others, as we might be trying to cope with challenging circumstances

“Acceptance”   Links to posts encouraging a sense of “acceptance” …when things can’t be changed….

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A few  possibly helpful “resilience” or “reassuring oneself while in the midst of  a challenging situation” perspectives and ideas:
(these were created many years ago…apparently, I’ve been exploring “resilience” for longer than I realized… )

I had intended to just put the clickable “links” to the following  youtube “booklets” here, but most of these youtube “booklets” seem to have actually “embedded” into this post…so I’ll just let them be here….since that’s what they seem to be “wanting” to do……..
If these youtubes don’t show up on your computer or tablet or won’t play, might you please email me… kboyle777@comcast.net …and I’ll try to link them in some other manner…thanks

Encouraging…  developing a deeper and broader sense of “resilience!”

“Disruptions”

“Something Rotten Has Happened” 

Sometimes, I’m a “Stinky Predictor” (perhaps, turn off the volume on this one!)

Persistence…. “Hang in there” 

Courage…Advice from the Sunflower 

Tests and Life Can Be Hard: Advice from a 10 year old

“Mistakes”…Sometimes We’re All Bumbling Our Way Through Life

Courage: “One Gutsy Thing” 

But…but…but….this isn’t that way it’s “supposed to be!” 

“Bearable”  It May Be Hard, But It Is Bearable  (written for kids, but good, basic, usable strategies for adults, myself included, too)

Conflict: Removing Oneself from Dynamics of… “Push-Shove”

Here’s what I “know”….  “Sometimes I Don’t Know…. “

“Hope Comes From a Large Family”

” Surprise Myself!” 

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Video List of  All Pocket Perspectives “booklets” that are presented on youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/pocketperspectives/videos

PP youtube screen capture

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