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I’ve been looking around for places that I might be able to “help out” in the communities near my home. As part of that exploration, I started taking a UC Berkeley class, Engaging with Life, at OLLI, Osher Lifelong Learning Institute. (The class has an amazing syllabus with links to interesting articles and videos: syllabus ) The professor of the class provides a warm, supportive environment, with contacts to a variety of remarkable local agencies that welcome volunteers.
I was a “Resource Specialist” in elementary school for many years, so figured that I might have some experience that could be helpful in classrooms where adults are learning English.
So…. I signed up to volunteer at Refuge Transitions, in some adult English language classes for refugees and immigrants from various countries of the world.
But…then…some doubts started popping into my mind … “what if….???” ….”what if….???”
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I was amazed!!! I’ve had lots of experience teaching English reading and speaking to children who are second language learners…and yet…the doubts continued to pop up! Isn’t that amazing?
So… I went back to reminding myself of the “steps” from a post I made in July… “Compassion In Action” The actual steps are from a book called Compassion in Action, by Ram Dass and Mirabai Bush.
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I thought lots more about each of those steps! I wanted to think of specific ideas I might “say” to myself for reassurance and encouragement.
Perhaps, some of these ideas might be useful for others to use, too….
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Be brave…..
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Start small….
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Use what you’ve got….
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Do something you enjoy….
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Don’t overcommit….
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And…
ideas about those “5 steps” together on one page,
a “menu” of ideas for each of us to choose from,
a variety of potentially reassuring and encouraging ideas
(link: pdf copy of the page below Compassionate Action Steps and Explanations)
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Last week, I did start volunteering in a beginning adult English class and had a wonderful time! The people in the class that day were immigrants or refugees from Eritrea, Ethiopia, Yemen, Afghanistan, Guatemala and Myanmar and a few other countries! All of the students were warm, friendly, cheerful and willing to try hard! And, to think, I was concerned about having courage to help out??? (Ah ha! That’s suggestion #4 under “Be brave”….. “Focus on others needing help or support, not oneself” )
What remarkable courage ALL of the people in that class have….new country, new language, new customs….new everything….all day, every day….new, unfamiliar and potentially confusing! And I was worried? Wow!
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reminding myself and others….
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We all have so many skills and talents that might be helpful to others!
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You have very much to offer children, teens and adults..All of us!
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thank you, Roberta…we all have so much to offer each other…. all of us!!! 🙂
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Kathy, 🙂 How awesome you are using your teaching skills to help out immigrants learn English. without mastering the language, opportunities for self-sufficiency become limited. I am always wondering how I can help so your post is very useful for me. I like the reminder to start small and not over commit.
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Hi Marie, 🙂 I really enjoyed helping out last week! I’ll continue and maybe help out more days. I was surprised how several of the volunteers, myself included, were lacking confidence in ourselves….so I think the Ram Dass ideas are potentially helpful…. especially the ones you mention!
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